ask away.. and answer away

i get alot of email everyday asking me about the music/entertainment industry.. and my first response is always.. (well it's in this video).. after you truthfully answer the question and if (and only if) you are willing to give all you've got and even 'all you don't got' then ask me anything here. i'm sure your questions will help many.. and please.. i ask for answers too.. if you think you have the answer then don't hesitate to share. you know i always love hearing from you :) i have to warn you though that i or others here will probably have answers you may not want to hear.

finding your passion

passion's a big word. and finding your passion doesn't always come easily. so how do i find it you ask.. they say if u think love needs to look like "romeo & juliet" then you might overlook a great relationship that grows slowly. and if you think you haven't found your passion yet then you probably think it should be overwhelming. when i first started doing music all i wanted was for it to supplement my true passion at the time which was acting. i figured it could only boost my acting career.. but here i am with a single, an ep, and 5 full albums later. and writing songs like there's no tomorrow :) so no, passion doesn't have to strike like lightning. not right away anyways :) but it does come in doing what your heart calls for. everyday. every moment you can spare. i hope you find your passion if you haven't already. and may you keep finding more passion cause i know i do.. a song doesn't fail to keep me up at night when i need to be sleeping..

is the grass greener on the other side?

as you well know i always say or write to you "i hope all's well" and i know that you know that i mean that from the bottom of my heart. i always wish you happiness.. but what does happiness mean to you? and alot of you let me know how you are doing and i'm always happy to hear from you! and so i decided to write this blog because happiness is a complicated and most desired state.. (or so we think) but do we really know how to reach it? or accept? or live with it? what IS happiness to you? i leave you with this conversation from yesterday (leaving their name out :) TEY: i hope all's well.. FRIEND HERE FROM MYSPACE: well it always seem i want what i can't have-how about you? you feel that way sometimes? TEY: lol. not really :) because the grass may seem greener on the other side but it usually isn't. be blessed and thanks for sharing.. wishing you the best weekend :) FRIEND HERE FROM MYSPACE: yes-maybe one day it will be just as green on both sides! amen!hehe ..and this song which to me is about finding your happiness inside.. finding your way to YOU :) "on my way to me" :)

Miley Cyrus Asian eyes photos... don't bother me

i'm sorry to say but i didn't know anything about these photos until just now. one of my friends here on myspace wrote me this: "I have a do you feel about the whole Miley Cyrus Asian eyes photo...I'm wondering an Asians view point seeing as how Gwen Stefani and her Harajuku Girls made "Big White Round eyes" in Gwen's Holla Back Girl...please elaborate" - kj i guess there's a $4 billion class action law suit filed against her claiming discrimination on Bill O'Reilly 's show it was called a "..silly, stupid, dopey photo.." and O'Reilly himself said that "we all know this is stupid.." and that this is a "..ridiculous complaint, has no basis.." furthermore this is what kj had to say when i asked him for his opinion.. "my point is it right to yell racism when a caucasian promotes it in their video...I never said to Gwen...Hey...I want 4 billion...cause we know...there is no..."WHITE COALLITION ASSOCIATION"...cause then I would be called rasist...and I'm not...for the world to stop being rasist...we need to stop complaining as well..." at the moment i'm not sure what to say or how to feel about this, maybe i'm still in shock :) i would love your comments or more information on this if you have any.. because before i have an opinion i prefer to know the "entire" story.. right now, i feel i don't.. thanks for being there :) and i have to add.. that not many things offend me, or i don't get offended easily :) so don't worry about my feelings here.. say what you have to say.. you can also always write me at